When My Child Proves Me Wrong, and I’m Okay With It
August 28, 2006
All of us who work with Spiff had SERIOUS reservations about his transition to Middle School. I think the only one who didn’t have reservations was Spiff, and all he was worried about was the fire drills.
We should have listened to him. He knew of what he spoke.
It is now two and a half weeks into the new school year, and Spiff is doing beautifully. Many teachers and staff have either stopped me in the halls, called me at home, or sent me notes telling me how well he’s adjusting and how wonderful and smart he is. There have been 2 fire drills since school has started, and today’s was perfect, with no outbursts, hiding under desks, or melting down. He simply covered his ears and walked outside with his aide.
His aide wrote me today to tell me that at lunch today he initiated a conversation with three girls sitting with him at the table. He was so proud of him to have done that, and I was doubly proud to read it. The fact that he is beginning to notice others around him during chaotic times is outstanding.
He turns 12 on Thursday. What a long, crazy, yet beautiful trip it has been. I’m sure soon I’ll be complaining about something he and his brother have done; but today, I’m going to bask in the proud glow of Spiff’s accomplishments.
This time, I’m okay with him proving me wrong. Just don’t tell him in those words, okay? Thanks. I’ve got a momma rep to protect.
August 29th, 2006 at 11:28 am
I am so encouraged by this post-today we go meet with the school for Littleman’s IEP. I am calm on the outside but my stomach is churning!!
How great to have teachers and staff at Spiff’s school share such positive feedback with you-good job Spiff, and good job middle school!!
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August 29th, 2006 at 3:24 pm
yeah spiff!
glad to hear he is handling the next big advnture in his life well….pat yourself on the back, mom!
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August 30th, 2006 at 9:53 am
Hey Shash, I would love to e-mail you but I am not finding your address on your blog!
I’m at novembersun@verizon.net
Thanks,
Tara
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